Never Ask
"What Should We Do?"
Again.
The ultimate app for couples to curate, manage, and discover amazing date ideas. Let fate decide your next adventure or use our AI to plan the perfect weekend.
Loved by 500+ couples
Everything You Need for
Better Dates
We've packed Date Jar with features designed to take the stress out of planning and put the fun back into dating.
Spin the Jar
Can't decide? Let the jar pick for you. Filter by cost, duration, or vibe and let fate handle the rest.
Partner Sync
Invite your partner to your jar. Both of you can add ideas, and changes sync instantly across devices.
Weekend Planner
Need a full itinerary? Our AI analyzes your location and preferences to build a custom weekend plan.
Dining Concierge
Find the perfect dinner spot. Get AI-curated restaurant recommendations with ratings and reviews.
Bar Scout
Discover hidden speakeasies and rooftop bars. Perfect for when you want to grab a drink after dinner.
Rate & Remember
Keep a history of your dates. Rate them, add notes, and build a scrapbook of memories.
How It Works
Create Your Jar
Sign up and create a digital jar. Add your favorite date ideas or use our AI to generate some.
Invite Partner
Send a unique invite code to your partner so you can both contribute and manage the jar.
Spin & Go
When date night comes, spin the jar to pick an activity. No more indecision!
Ready to spice things up?
Join thousands of couples who are having better dates, more often. It's free to get started.